Thanks a lot for your responses. He is kind, considerate, joking and thoughtful. Sounds like he really enjoys you, mostly for friendship. But we have to play it by year. When someone's falling in love or at least staring to like you they might start texting in a way that reveals their true feelings. He would joke with me and seemed like he cared. He can clearly see that I'm interested and he seems like he is too but then why won't he ask me to go out? Interesting side note: I noticed he had deactivated his profile on the site we had met around the time things started getting shaky which would have been around the time he had his huge loss at work.
And because of our ages, rather than just ignore them, I felt it was only fair to tell him how I was feeling, through text of course. If it is going longer than that, then something is up. That's not really a romantic word. I informed him immediately of my situation; he knew I am in a relationship with kids but it didn't bother him. Origionat, we had been planning to meet this month actually - and we did have a specific date set.
I agreed to this and we continue to see each other once a week to every other week and we still very much enjoy each other's company--the last time I saw him we spent 9 hours together. My issue is this: I always initiate the contact now to make plans and he takes days to respond. He told me that his sorry if he's response to my questions are short coz his lazy to text long messages and he hopes that I understand. This is a classic way to tell if someone likes you. Make him laugh Ladies, make a guy want you even more by making him laugh! At least, the way you've written about him, he comes off nice. A vamp is someone who sucks the energy right out of you.
Your first reaction might be to send him 5 more text messages in hopes of saying something that might interest him. He is very open to dropping everything since we no longer work together. I told him there are other reasons why and he said he seen that in my text. At 4pm I got a long response about him heading to a barber shop on my side of town for a haircut, because he thought I was coming later in the evening. They are letting you into their world.
And that makes it much harder to figure out his feelings. I've had it happen myself where I didn't think a guy would interact with me again, but then popped up for no clear reason at all. It may seem like a simple thing to say, but sometimes simple works wonders. I have spent the whole week getting over it. His response 'No pressure at all, like you said similar boats. And this'll show up in their texting style.
I also went to this to make sure I'm not sending the wrong signs to people. Since I've been back, we've texted and I asked him what a good weekend was for him. . It was so much fun, we laughed and talked we joked around and some serious conversation like a real couple. He's even planned things to do with me when I see him again and has asked when my birthday was? Maybe it is time to let him be. Gently make fun of him without going overboard.
Do you also see him in person? I haven't heard from him since he said he booked a flight. People have lots of things they are doing, often cultivating a social profile is different than a text conversation. Since then we have texted everyday and met up from time to time for drinks, cinema, dinner, etc. Hello, Im 17 years old girl and i never had boyfriend cause im not good in having conversation with boys or i cant have guy friend im kinda boring i guess. Keep these random texts casual and try to sound as natural as possible. And to be honest, ever since my last relationship I tried to put my all in to it and make it my last but i don't know why I can't now.
Don't approach the elephant in the room. I appreciate your calm, male introspect on things like this! As we are different countries. Like he is replying with a one word text and he takes long to reply. Try to stay on interesting topics and when the convo starts fizzing out, try to spark it up once more or let it die. I think you guys need some sort of Skype conversation, to be honest. I met this guy on bumble, it's been a month and we've gone on two dates. So there you have it, 5 secrets for texting a guy you like.
I get the vibe he is just scared and wants to take things slow because he doesn't like to talk about us dating other people or no longer spending time together. I wish you were here right now. The first time, I went to his house and he made dinner. Then in the car I texted him hey and he replied with a Hey! Of course I told him I will not rely on another man like that, and I want to be able to take care of myself first. Now it feels a little awkward. He gets into this crazy accident, 2 months hospitalized. If they slip in a cute name or two, go ahead and let yourself be thrilled.